Important! Writing Positive Criticism and Comments

Whether you are an aspiring writer or a famous author, criticism plays a critical role as to whether or not you continue to write and /or how successful you become at it.

For many of us who grew up in dysfunctional family environments where criticism was the norm.  We know first hand how easily a harsh word or comment can level our self esteem.  Or worse we experience the long and often devastating after effects that can take a life time to turn around.

Words are powerful, very, very powerful.  If criticism is not handled with gentle honest, care and sincerity, it is not considered to be constructive criticism.  It may be debilitating and destructive; leaving one feeling diminished.

The quote that I have chosen below is a pretty good rule of thumb for constructive criticism.

“Criticism, like rain, should be gentle enough to nourish a person’s growth without destroying their roots.”–Frank Clark

I seem to fit into both categories; an aspiring writer and someone who grew up in a dysfunctional environment.  Because of this I am extremely sensitive to the importance of providing a writing forum that is safe for writers and promotes positive constructive criticism and comments.

Therefore, I am committed to screening each and every comment before it is posted.  Only positive constructive criticism will be allowed on this site.  Every one deserves to be heard and the right to feel safe.  Please be considerate to fellow writers.

From Sageism.com – “It takes great courage to write, and even greater courage to share what you have written.  Belonging to a community which allows others to read what you have written and to comment or critique your work is a tremendous step.  If you’ve made it this far you should be commended.  Congratulations and Welcome we are pleased to have you.  Sageism.com, ” A writing community for writers, where you can feel safe.”

REMEMBER:  Trust must be earned; be consciously aware of the message that you are sending.  It requires balance;  be gentle, considerate and deliver your comments, with TLC.         © “2009” Sage Williams